Unsure what's next, what to do.....

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Thanks, Steve. Those were my exact thoughts but wanted to be sure I wasn’t missing something.

equalzr, it’s just one session with both of our IC present. They informed us if we continue MC then we will be with a totally different therapist. My W had been seeing her IC a couple times before the latest incident for her issues with her childhood and retraumatizing herself with it earlier this year. We both floated the idea to each of our IC and they both agreed to do this. I think it’s more or less for my W to voice her feelings since she hasn’t as of yet to me. My thought was if my IC is present and hears everything she can help me better moving forward than me trying to recollect what took place in a future session. Another positive I hope that comes from it is my IC can maybe ask her some of the tougher questions that might help hearing the answers too without me being the one asking them. My mentality is going to be let her share and I’ll validate and ask for examples if needed and that’s the extent of what I’m going to contribute.