"And just simple ask if she could provide me with some examples as to why she feels that way or is that taking it too far?"
I see nothing wrong with this. Acknowledge the feeling, then ask for clarity on behaviors from you that contribute to that. This will help inform your 180s moving forward.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018