Originally Posted by Did
I would do MC before I was physical with her. Sex is easy as you see in my sitch. And then since you know each other have connection and desire the sex is really good. At least for us.... then it made me re-attach... from personal experience.



This is so true. This is why we generally tell LBS that if the WAS initiates it is okay to engage IF you can do it without attaching significance or expectations. Did's case is a good one because I believe his WAS used sex TO get him reattached so he would keep giving her the voluntary support.

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