H is taking the girls to his mums tomorrow night instead of having them stay with him. This got my back up. It means he is planning on going out with her. I said something like "you haven't really had them over at all this week" and he mentioned he'd been around every day to visit. I said, "yeah, I'd noticed that".
I think I wanted to make a point that he was spending a lot of time here (i.e. to make him acknowledge that the weekend impacted him too) and also that I knew he was using his mum as a babysitter so he could go out.
Was this wrong? Should I just have said nothing?
He mentioned he is not sleeping well either. But he blames a headache that he can't seem to get rid of. He made a point of mentioning that is friend (a male friend) is flying in today and is here for the weekend and he is catching up with him tonight. He normally doesn't bother telling me what he is doing.
