I should have added "whiplash" to this title. My husband is so back and forth right now. Last week he asked for a divorce. This week he wants to work on the marriage and hopes that we can go to counseling together. A lot of this was precipitated by my discovery that he paid to have OW fly out out to our state, and planned to stay in a hotel with her while scheduled for a vocational training. Ultimately, that didn't happen (I hope!) I have read Michelle's books and, while not perfect, I have successfully (temporarily) employed the 180. After finishing the book, I have to say that I believe that my husband is in the throes of a MLC--I hope that I have the patience to do this.
