Sorry about everything that has happened. Sometimes we go a few weeks with no change, then everything happens in a day or two.
Gotta let him go, quit putting a nice landing area for him. No more I love you's, I miss you's, etc. Don't be his plan B. Don't allow cake eating.
GAL means go start a new life. Move forward and enjoy every day! You never know which could be your last so live like it!
Thanks overrnbw. Trying like crazy to keep this in mind. I do find myself enjoying things on my own without him, I just can't envision the rest of my life not sharing it with someone special. I love my friends dearly but I only have a few close ones and really thrive on having deep, meaningful relationships in my life vs. lots of acquaintances. So this has really been a deep cut in terms of what I envision a happy future to be.
H:39 W:30 M:4 T:9
05/2018: H says "ILYBNILWY", BD 07/2018: Discovered A, confronted 09/2018: PA + other details emerge; H moved out 12/2018: I filed 03/2019: Divorce finalized
