Is it normal for WAS’ to go dark when the LBS goes dark?

When do they actually reach out? Do they ever not in some cases?

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Together: 11 years
M: 5
No kids
D Bomb: Aug 2018
S: Aug 2018

Living Apart Since: Feb 2017