I haven’t reached out to them. Last time his mom emailed me was in July and she hasn’t even checked up since. Mind you, I did not respond because she has been asking me to book time off for next year as she is taking the whole family to the south somewhere for a week. During that time, we weren’t even talking H and I because went MIA for two months.
Last time I’ve heard about his family was that his mom has been calling H to see how I’m doing so they are obviously hesitant in contacting me.
I specifically told my sister not to talk about me to H since he’s been contacting her. I told her to tell me nothing about me, what I’m doing, how I am, etc. I know he’s been concerned with my well being and health but it pisses me off that he wants ME to update him on how I’m doing. Yeah, nope.
Together: 11 years M: 5 No kids D Bomb: Aug 2018 S: Aug 2018