Hi Grace

Havent much advice to give but wanted to say sounds like you're doing great. Detaching is hard, not wondering ehat theyre doing all the time is hard, but I think in time we will be able to go through a day without thinking of them. .

Like you, I have no intention to date. Cant see myself doing it for a long time. And like you mine wasnt dating when he left. Just depressed and angry. But then they realise they are alone - so to fill that space they date. I am not saying yours will stay dating, im just saying that if he did, it would be because he feels so alone.

((hugs))


W40 (me), H40
M14, Together 16
D12, D9

BD Oct 17
Moved out Mar 18