Thanks Ready2Change. I’ve just started reading the threads.

Just wondering if I should start looking for lawyers and consult now.

We don’t have kids so I’m not even sure what my rights are.


Had a terrible night last night and kept on waking up unable to fall back asleep thinking about him and someone else. I’m thinking it’s the coworker girl he was talking about. Apparently she moved to California to her her PhD though. I don’t even know if I should really find out. Would knowing make a difference?


Together: 11 years
M: 5
No kids
D Bomb: Aug 2018
S: Aug 2018

Living Apart Since: Feb 2017