But, most times after you win the prize, what do you do with it?
It depends how useful it is.
Most stuff I win gets stuck in the closet. And I think ex-OW thought ex-B was a prize since I know she felt she took him from me. Then she was engaged to someone else in swift order!
I think D and J will be two unhappy people. It sounds like they aren't terribly happy now...and as I read in a magazine article, marriage doesn't make you happy, it makes you married. If you are an unhappy person, you can't expect marriage to all of a sudden make you into a happy one (not for any length of time).