I want to thank you for all the posts today. The distraction of reading and thinking about what you were saying was very good for me, to help me get myself picked back up out of the basement a bit.
I hope J tires of D quickly.
You are welcome, and I can't imagine there is any sort of long-lasting R with them. I believe that like the ex-OW sit in my case, J wants what someone else has (or wants). There won't be much of a challenge without you in his life.