Remember, you only need to say things ONCE. He has heard you.
Time to 180 the words. Less is more. None is best. No more R talk. No more bringing up OW to H.
Your actions are now what is important.
Any R talk from H, your responses are like this:
"I am sorry you feel that way" "I am not sure how I feel about that" "I need more time to think about that" "I will get back to you on that" "I have to go. We can discuss that later"
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712