Just as a warning to other LBS's reading this, a few months is a blazing fast turnaround but if you go back and read the first couple of pages, a couple of us did comment that it seemed like Paul's W was not a full-blown WAS yet. So he may have gotten lucky and caught things early enough to turn it around before she went full BD. Timing helps a lot, unfortunately most of us don't have a clue until the hour is late.
This is so true! I think a good indicator is who initiates BD. In my sitch, which turned around quickly (which is atypical), I initiated BD because I could tell something wasn't quite right. Snooped, found messages between her and OM, and took action.
If she had initiated BD she would have been much further down the path to WAS/WW status.
LBSs, listen to AS here. Most sitched take MONTHS, and even YEARS. Patience is a must.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
