Hello and welcome! Frankly I'm surprised you weren't the one leaving, after reading how hard you tried and how he was completely unresponsive I thought that's where things were going, that you were going to be the WAS. First kudos to you for trying that hard, that's very admirable of you. Second, have you read DR? Stop all the pursuit. That is all just pushing him farther away. No frequent contact, no talk of moving closer to him, no requests for MC. Stop it all. Give him time and space. Work on yourself. Don't worry about the distance, that works in your favor. Don't give him medical updates unless he asks, and if he asks be VERY brief. Cadet or Job will be along to post a bunch of links for you, read them all! Good luck and keep posting!
