Paul, congrats! Proceed with caution though. If you fall back into old habits you will find yourself in the same spot. DB'ing is for life. Stick with your 180's. Do some soul-searching about what worked to rebuild things and what didn't work, and keep doing what is working.

Just as a warning to other LBS's reading this, a few months is a blazing fast turnaround but if you go back and read the first couple of pages, a couple of us did comment that it seemed like Paul's W was not a full-blown WAS yet. So he may have gotten lucky and caught things early enough to turn it around before she went full BD. Timing helps a lot, unfortunately most of us don't have a clue until the hour is late.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57