I did understand why you weren't here and I appreciate you in paticular because I know what it costs to go somewhere you are possibly headed and read.
{{{Deb}}}
We didn't settle an amount of the house payment I would have to pay. I probably can't pay half of it and he would just have to take a bigger percentage of the equity that builds between now and when it sells.
We did not discuss repairs and I am hoping to do that with him before long. To see what his thoughts are on it.
You know your H might surprise you if it comes to that.
D was much more generous than I expected and much better than the deal his A was offering.
Might be worth asking him about discussing settlement.
I am not sure how that works on retirement, if you don't get it till he retires or it has to be pulled out when the d is final.
But he really should be able to see that you are owed that after the length of time you have been married.
He also appears to still care, because of all the stuff he has done and the actions you have seen out of him. He won't want to leave you in bad shape.
I really don't think D will be happy with J, but he has known her for a long time and he should have a good idea of what he is getting into. So maybe I am wrong and he can live that way.
I guess he is planning to find out. At least Frostbyte doesn't have to live with the screaming witch!!
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
