Did, the problem is exactly what I said on my picnic post. You keep doing things with one eye on her. "I'll date Mary, maybe that will make her think I am moving on and scare her that she is losing me!" "I'll do xyz, and hope she takes notice."

DBing isn't about her noticing. She may never notice. So many LBSs get caught up on this. DBing is for you. If the WAS takes notice, great! If not, so what, keep doing what you should be doing.

So take the eye off of her and put it on what you need to be doing. You'll be surprised at how much more effective DBing is for your well-being when you aren't constantly wondering if she is taking note.

Last edited by Steve85; 10/10/18 06:56 PM.
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