Thanks AS. Its been rough to say the least. I can read her face and tell when shes on the hunt for a fight. Im not 100% sure what sets her off, but i do know that she has been getting coaching from OM, thats obvious. When she is in the mood for a fight, she will not let up.

Im wondering if i should send my S to an IC. I asked him if he would like to talk to someone and he said no(typical boy). I also asked my IC, and she said dont do it if he doesnt want to talk, lets wait and see how he does etc. That said hes definitely displaying some issues with anger, and hes mentuoned to me in the past that he thinks he is the problem amongst a few other things hes confided in me about. I made sure to address that right away and let him know he has nothing to do with it and mom and dad love him, but i still feel like maybe he would be more comfortable talking with someone else. I asked my W about it, and she seemed very disinterested in the whole thing and definitely didnt want him seeing my IC. Putting 2 and 2 together, i figured out that shes probably worried that he will eventually figure out her A and ic will also talk with him about mom being gone all the time.


Together:20 years
M:3 years
Me:40
WW:40
S15
A suspected:5/17
AC:5/18
BD:8/18
WW in full blown R w/ OM
Still under same roof