There was a moment in the last few days where W was basically followimg me around the house and berating me
People will treat you how you let them treat you. If I was in your shoes, I would have said "If you were a man, I'd hit you. I'm leaving." And leave the house. That kind of treatment is total BS.
Just remember that anger is a secondhand emotion and that her anger and lashing out at you is a sign of the pain she is going through quite a bit too. Don't fight fire with fire here.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.