Thanks RR17. Today was a bit tough for me in that it was unnatural but I think anyways was good. I slept like crap last night (been on the couch since Sept16) but this morning I stood my ground. I didn't get angry but was confident and firm with the W that I wanted to sleep in the bed and that I was not going to suffer and loose sleep because of her decision to leave the marriage. Not sure if that was the best way to handle things but would appreciate everyone's feedback.