Originally Posted by FlySolo
What I am looking for - comfort from someone, anyone, that I have the strength to carry on.


LBS as well as WAS are probably doing this. I find comfort in friends, my church, and activities. THIS is what gives me the strength to carry on. Filling my days has been so important. When I feel blue, I call a friend. And most of my days are pretty good. I am adamant about not looking towards another man for comfort. Clouds things, I would imagine, and besides, I AM a married woman. Wonder if my H sees it that way? We agreed to no dating, but I don't know his strength in this area.


M: 56
H: 57
S: 22
D: 20

H Moved out: 10/1/18