I have the feeling my W is trying to financially crush me in the D(i know, its common). Shes a very intelligent and clever woman, but i never realized that would be used against me 1 day. Its like every move she makes has a motive behind it to take a little something else from me. Someone on the outside would surely think that i had been the one involved in the A.

Does being spiteful help her deal with her guilt??

Im really working on self development goals right now. I want to be more decisive, be a better leader, and make sure i have goas with a plan in mind.

Last edited by equalzr; 10/10/18 03:10 PM.

Together:20 years
M:3 years
Me:40
WW:40
S15
A suspected:5/17
AC:5/18
BD:8/18
WW in full blown R w/ OM
Still under same roof