I was worried after not hearing from you for so long, but all things considered it seems like you are doing well. I agree that time and distance is the way to go. As both of us have found out it does nothing to guarantee the return of our spouses, but it does wonder for our own attitudes and moods. The most important thing in life is taking responsibility for our own happiness, and you seem well on your way there.
It's interesting that you are still feeling disappointment in your W. I have gotten more stuck in resentment and anger. Hopefully we can both reach a place of more acceptance in the coming months.
I'm sure Thursday will inspire some emotions as the paperwork portion of the relationship draws to a close. Do something fun for yourself, get out and be with friends.
Take care of yourself and stay in touch.
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
