Well I want to say thus far I am succeeding folks. My wife is back for the most part, she has cut her EA off to my knowledge and we are tighter than we have ever been. For those who have little faith in what you have learned here trust me it works stick to the program, GAL, work on yourself. Can I guarantee it 100% no I cannot, but it's worked for me thus far, things are a still bit rocky but as far as my marriage it's way better than it ever was I am so in love with my wife and I believe she feels the same. The key for me right now is not to back slide I will keep working ahead and make the best of my new chance.