Hurt is not the emotion.
I moved past hurt months ago.
Disappointed is the emotion...All told I feel that my W and I were a great couple and had a great relationship.
I had some serious life issues arise at the end of our relationship and it made me into a very sad human being.
The seperation was the only way for me to work my way out of the despair and depression and take accountability for myself. The good news is that it didn't take that long for me to bounce back and change my life, I hope that that is encouragement for newcomers.
I am disappointed that WW didn't even try to work on things (ever in the relationship honestly)
She is an avoidant and has her own road to walk down.
There is still so much love in my heart for her is the bummer...it would have been so much easier if I hated her but that would not have been authentic to my feelings.


M 40 W 34
Together 7 Married 2
No Kids
BD 1/18 need space
Moved out 2/18
ILYBNILWY & Asked for D 3/18
W filed for D 6/18
D final 10/18