Last night I had the kids. He sent me a text asking if I was going to invite anyone over. Of course I wasn’t. I just said no. I don’t know why he would even ask that.
Today he asked me if I ever get the urge to call a guy late at night to come over just for sex. I said no and he said “Of course, you’re too much of a good girl.” He told me he gets those urges and doesn’t understand why I wouldn’t. Then he said “I guess we’re just different.” I don’t know why he would bring that up. It’s hurtful to me. He did always complain that I was too much of a good girl in bed. I feel like he’s criticizing me to get back at me for being more distant or he’s just really trying to be hurtful because he holds so much resentment against me for making him feel unwanted during our marriage.
I am so tempted to ask him why he is being so hurtful and saying these things but I haven’t. Do I just ignore these comments and questions? I’m trying not to make him angry by ignoring him but I can’t take much more of this. It hurts because I feel like he is a different person from the person I married. He seems like a sex crazed lunatic.
