Do you think in time WAH's start to crave the deeper emotional/family bond again? My H just seems to have gone from failing (failed?) A onto dating...
I cannot speak to your sitch, Toots.
However, I read somewhere that men seek out sex as a way to connect with his wife emotionally whereas women need to feel emotionally connected with their man in order to enjoy sex.
For you male posters, is that ^^ sex part about right?
No wonder problems arise! crazy
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I read this on another old thread. This hit me big time because this is exactly what I think is likely to happen to my H. Although he is not in an A now, he is out of the house to figure out if he has it in him to work on the M. How long can he last before the itch will take over? We haven't had sex since his affair was exposed last January. Although we slept in the same bed, spooned, etc. until the day he moved out last week. He didn't want sex "just to do it". He said he wanted a deep emotional connection, and it wasn't there. Maybe we would have had it if he didn't put all his energy into a honey?
We agreed we would not date during this trial separation. I certainly have NO desire to, but really wonder if he has it in him. He thrives on external validation. Well, one more thing I have no control over.
Are there any threads on here specifically for a LBW that may have a different slant on how to deal with WAH? It's ready Sandi's rules for the WAW. Thanks.
