The only point I would make is that I wouldn't discuss goals that involve the MR or the WW. That's pursuing. Action speaks louder than words. Rather than directly telling W what you are working toward work it into the casual daily convo. JM2C
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.