Thank you FS. I will definitely keep that in mind. My H has texted me a couple times today. He seems overly concerned about my car. Texted me to ask if I wanted him to make an appointment to get my winter tires put on at the same time as him so he could bring the tires for me in his SUV. I could put the tires in my back seat but I said ok and thanked him. Normally it would be me that makes the appointments but I’m fine with him doing it. Part of my challenge...when he wants to step up to the plate, I have removed to let him without trying to micro manage the details. That is hard for me. I’m not controlling, just detail-oriented which is something my H is not. I think he experiences it as controlling though so I am stepping back from the responsibilities that he wants to take on. Feeling pretty good today. Got my hair done and I’m wearing my favourite jeans that haven’t fit me in years. Feeling strong and confident and looking forward to my girls night out tomorrow.
