What I believe matters more, is what kind of man do you want to be married to and raise your daughter with? I don't think it is this guy here.
This is the most important.
That is why YOU have to fill in the blanks. This is you and and your life:
Here is what I need in my marriage___________, ___________, _____________, and________________. I have decided that I can't be married to you because you are not meeting these BASIC needs.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712