That's a tough situation to be in, for sure, kml. I applaud your altruistic thoughts where his children are concerned, but I think I am going to have to agree with Andrew and Ginger on this one and let HIM take the lead in how he wants to handle it. God bless you, lady....you are awesome!
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids