I always love hearing from you. I remember a long time ago reading about your H and thinking that would never be my H. He never, ever drank, would never do drugs, would never smoke . . . So much for all that. Sad when my first reaction to seeing that he was in an accident was that it was likely his fault and he was likely drunk or impaired. Well, I was right about the his fault part. I guess I'll find out about the rest in time.
If he was intoxicated, I don't think the insurance will cover the car or the damage, etc. But, since it is his problem and his separate tort in view of his filing, I'm not even going to bother looking at the policy or the statute.
While I still don't know if he's NPD, I do know that he has lots of narcissistic traits right now. I know that narcissists like revisiting past lives where they felt better about the mask they were wearing then. I'd assume the stalking is that or just his need for control. For the first time he has no idea what we are doing or whether we are in town, etc. (I stopped using a credit card that gave him lots of info).
I agree with you. It some strange soup of depression/addiction/MLC/escapism, etc.
