Steve, I should have been more specific, what I intended was that I am just not going to worry about what she does anymore and I am not going to react. I am not going to let her drag me down. I am just going to take care of myself and the kids and get on with life. If she eventually "wakes up" and returns great, if not then it is her loss. I am truly starting to love myself and realize my worth. No matter what the final outcome of all this is I am responsible for my own happiness and I am going to do things in life that make me happy.
Yes, that's it exactly! If you start slipping then refer to that paragraph, because that's a great synopsis of the goal of DBing.
