Wrong. This approach ALWAYS works. What you have to do is change your definition of works. If by works you mean she will return to the MR and be full in, then yeah, that might not work. But if you mean that you will be better, stronger, and healthier....and OK no matter what. Then this approach ALWAYS works. [/quote]
Steve, I should have been more specific, what I intended was that I am just not going to worry about what she does anymore and I am not going to react. I am not going to let her drag me down. I am just going to take care of myself and the kids and get on with life. If she eventually "wakes up" and returns great, if not then it is her loss. I am truly starting to love myself and realize my worth. No matter what the final outcome of all this is I am responsible for my own happiness and I am going to do things in life that make me happy.
