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EVERYONE HERE, AND I MEAN ABSOLUTELY EVERYONE, wants you to be happy again, to enjoy life again...but YOU AND ONLY YOU are capable of making the decision to do that, because HAPPINESS is a decision, it just doesn't happen through osmosis.
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Absolutely. I am choosing to be happy in whatever situation I find myself in. And when I read what you wrote today, it was like "not again". It is rather controlling, I think we all have had controlling behaviors with those we love and it turns them and it turns others off.

Pam, you do need to empower yourself. We can't do that, we can only support you.