Clean Slate pt 3. (Advice on Scenario pt 25)

[OrangeK]

Ovr – What about her behavior strikes you as odd?? I know I have my own reasons, just wondering if you and I are identifying the same behaviors.



Yesterday was a bit odd – I was leaving work, and taking a right onto the main rd like I always do. OM drove by with EX in the passenger seat, and after a few cars went by, I made my right turn onto the road, same direction they were going on their way to pick up S3 I would assume. OM then quickly turned off the main rd onto a side street away from the direction of S3’s school. I continued up the road, stopped at the store, as was my original plan, and then turned around and headed back the way I was coming from, and took my right hand turn at the 4 way intersection OM had just earlier turned at abruptly. I took my right hand turn and there they were behind me, now again on course for S3’s school. I turned off that road right before they did, but headed in the direction of my house.
I honestly think OM / EXW saw me from my work parking lot, and assumed I was following them or something? Which is why he turned off the road, and then detoured for no reason, only to head the direction he was going in originally.



So far there have been 4 “hoover” type events. – For those curious, Google “Narcissistic Hoovering Techniques” to get an idea of what I mean.
1 – way back in Jan, before TRO – I got a “oh, remember we used to watch this show together? I had watched some episodes and thought of you”

2 – Aug – the “I saw there was a car wreck (nowhere near my house) and people were badly hurt and killed, are you ok??”
3 – Sept. – the “I miss you” “oops” “Sh*t” “I didn’t mean to send that” texts which she claimed were accidental.



Then the Once a month niceness, random texts about things we don’t really need to discuss.