just figured I'd respond. Don't have much of an update.
Last contact with my W was 10/2, surprisingly after 5pm. But I think she went to counseling for herself that night, so she wasn't at OM's place yet. I was volunteering so I couldn't call back until 830 when I got home. Since she wasn't at home, I decided there was no reason to call back.
Saturday and Sunday I spent building a big 6'x'3 oak grill table for one of my newer grills and a flat top griddle. Still in progress. Feel good usually and W isn't on my mind much. Hope to get out and hunt this week a little more, maybe go out some too. Softball on Wednesdays but that ends in a couple weeks unfortunately.
Met with my priest on Thursday last week. He's a really good guy and helpful. His best advice was one that took a long time to sink in: "Unless she wants to work on the marriage, what is there to talk about?". I haven't called or texted W. Haven't done that since July I think, except for the 3 weeks of "trying".
So not much going on.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
