Thanks for all the encouragment guys. Updated my signature with some of the requested details. LH19, to answer some of your questions I don't know who or what she has her eye on but yes she is doing all of the above. She is constantly going out with friends, obsessed with always looking her best, nails, eyelashes dressed up and makeup no matter where she is going. I was never one to ever look at her phone but the other night we were sitting on the couch and she was laughing at something on her phone. She told me about the funny clip she just watched that a friend posted on snapchat. I asked to see the clip and she began to act very funny and was very reluctant to show me anything on her phone. After fumbling around for a bit (like she was trying to hide what else was on her phone) she eventually showed me the clip.
Huge red flag. The number one sign of an A (whether EA or PA) is secretive phone and computer activity. Now here is the thing:
Unless an A crosses a boundary for you for which there is no return, then it changes NOTHING you should be doing. Keep working on you. I like that you said in your OP that you are improving physically, mentally, and spiritually. Great keep that up. Work in a lot of GAL. Continue to 180 on things that needed changing....and work on detaching. Read, learn, study, know and employ sandi's rules.
A or no A, keep on doing what you need to be doing.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
