Whoa, slow down and take a deep breath. What makes you think you're piecing? Has she committed to saving the M? Has she said she's ready to move back home? Has she actually told OM never to contact her again and then blocked him on everything? Has she ended all her sexting, chat rooms, dating sites, or whatever addiction she has going on? No, and she doesn't want her family & friends to know about you and her...…..which is a red flag that she's stringing you along. Sorry Did, but this is not piecing. You two may be talking about things, like seeing a therapist, etc. Hopefully, it will lead to actually piecing (which is really hard work). But you aren't back together yet. There is just a lot of talking going on right now. She likes talking about herself......a lot. If you'll notice, everything is about her, and you are like this eager little boy who will agree to anything...….just to be with her. She doesn't even want to live under the same roof with you. Unless a lot has happened between my post and yours, and you failed to mention it...….then what I'm reading sounds like a man who desperately wants to believe his M is piecing.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
