Originally Posted by Ready2Change
Do other women notice?


Yes. Even my mother says that she feels like her son is back, that my voice even sounds more positive. I get compliments from W and other women about how I now look. Even MiL says she's amazed at how calm i've been.

My mother has been a WAW a few times. She is certain that W will now be having some doubts due to the positive changes I've made but it would't last long if we got back together now because W hasn't changed for the better. W has a lot of work to do for herself. My mother thinks it would take a year or 2. I could forgive W for what she's done (that I know of). If there is OP then I'd feel different.

Because of the changes I've made and feeling better in lots of ways, I'm confident that I'd be better in a R in the future but I'm aware enough that that's only how I feel at the moment.