Sorry I haven't posted much to you. Spent the morning trying to catch up!
It was hard for me to come and read your thread since I seem to be following in your footsteps .
That is good that you get to stay there until the house sells. Someone had told me that about our home. Half of my house payments would be $194, so I can afford that. Who has to keep up the repair? Roof needs fixing here, also plumbing and the furnice is aweful.
I too will be asking for health insurance because of my disease. My H already has taken A LOT of stuff through the last year. There is not much to give him!
I'm hoping for maintence, don't know how much or for how long though. It was good that you and D could do the settlement together. Wish we could. My H would want his retirement and thats not going to happen so why sit down with him and try. Wish I could though...
Too bad we can't give them the memories and they could take them with.
Quote: I feel this way about my H--that I love him more now, even after all we've been through this last year. It's not the needy kind of love it was before, it's unconditional.
I have to totally agree with you two! My love for my H has changed too. He told me he doesn't feel the same way about me; I hope not!
As for D, from what I read; he will NOT be happy with J! I don't know why in the world he is even thinking of M her! Because I read between the lines. Sounds to me like he is jumping into the fire.
It won't work out between them, if that is any consulation. I'm sure the same will happen to my STBX. They will find getting a D only makes them more unhappy. They think they have found the answer to happiness, when they only found a new kind of hell.
((((Hugs))))
I just went through a stage last night, not a good one. But I know except those stages. They won't last, it's only a part of the journey!
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