update... just got done with D14’s IC. WW was present. asked permission from IC if i could ask WW for a while. asked q’s on why were here and what are doing and ask permission from IC if i could take over for a while.
LBH: hey WW why are we here?
WW: to make D14 go through this and be a better person.
LBH: that’s one of the reasons, but one main goal is to rebuild her R with you. s WW:yes?
LBH: so. we’ve been here a couple iof times and IC had some recommendations, and we still don’t see any changes? IC: yes
LBH: IC, am not trying to take over the convo here, but if you can give me a little bit of time. WW, your mantra of “if she doesnt want to talk to me, i won’t talk to her.” is not working. maybe you need to change your approach. I am sorry that you feel that am pulling her away from you, alienating her, blackmailig her. if i want to do those things, we won’t even be here. your actions are not working. maybe you need a different approac
WW: well, i try to text her and she won’t reply. and it’s hard to push someone to let them know that you love them and they don’t try to love you back.
LBH:: i know that feeling, i’ve been there, but this is your D14, you can’t just ignore her.
IC: that makes sense. D14 is hurt and angry but she’s not saying she wants you (WW) out her life. WW: i tried texting her, she doesn’t reply an when she does reply, they’re hurtful and disrespectful.
LBH: WW whatever she tells you and her replies, don’t come to me. but make no mistake, i always tell her to be respectful.
