R,

Sorry you are here but you came to the right place.

Please include in your signature your ages, how long together and married kids and ages.

Who is the guy she has her eye on? Is she hiding her phone? Dressing different, hanging out with new friends?

Why are you skeptical about the db methods? How did begging, pleading and being super husband work for you?

You have along road ahead of you so I suggest you start exercising, eating right and getting plenty of sleep.

You have to let her go to get her back. I know that doesn't make sense but it is the quickest way.

You need to implement every action with strength. No more weakness begging and pleading.

Good luck and keep posting!