Hey guys. New member here and first post. I have been doing a ton of reading on the boards and figured it was time for my first post. I am dealing with a classic WAW. Things were going well then suddenly out of the blue after our anniversary I got the I am unhappy and need space, I love you but am not in love with you, I hope we can remain close friends talk. I fell in to the what appears to be common state, became a complete mess, spent all my time trying to fix things and chasing her which I realize was the worst thing for me to do. After much reading on here my new plan is to GAL, be friendly to her when she initiates conversation but not going out of my way to keep conversation going or initiate it myself, really truly work on myself mentally, spiritually, and physically. Basically follow and stick to Sandi's guidelines. My biggest problem is keeping myself out of the traps. I find myself feeling like crap when she doesn't really react in any way to me and I am having a real hard time just taking a breath and walking away. It is really difficult to sit here next to someone I love so much who just doesn't seem to care about me. I am also having a really hard time convincing myself that this is the best method and may actually change how she feels about me. I appreciate all the advice from everyone on here and reading the success stories certainly is a help.
