Are you saying that there were no relational issues, and she has given no reason for wanting a divorce, other than being apart did not cause her to miss you?

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So far, I have been overly sensitive to her state and not put my foot down on anything. However, this is another reason I think I need to proceed thinking there is no hope. It might give me a backbone.


I think I just discovered the source of the problem. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!