What is the dilemma, is it regarding whether W should be invited or not? My attitude about stuff for the kids is always that both parents should go because both parents should show their support and love for the kids. That doesn't mean you and W have to drive together or even sit together, but don't try and block her from going. Don't invite her yourself or try to make her go if she doesn't want to, but I would suggest you tell S that you think he should invite her and he should tell her you are fine with her being there.
Not trying to block her at all, I want her to go, she has had no contact with the kids since Aug 26th except for one text. He is getting frustrated with her. I just dont know if I should reach out to her and ask her to come. I want this to be as smooth as possible.
AS all I really want right now is for the D to be completed and everyone start to heal. Everyday there is something new that pops up that W didnt do that I have to take care of, ie D19's contact lenses, W failed to reorder, so its up to me. Its ok I will do it but again she could communicate with the kids... she just doesnt want to.
M:52 W:49 D:26 S:24 S:23 D:20 ILYBNILWY 5/28/17 Still living together W filed 1/5/18 W moved out 8/24/18 D final 9/18/20
