You handled all of that PERFECTLY! I am so happy for you, I actually have tears in my eyes typing this.
Kech, notice a couple of things. He keeps talking.....but not acting. That is huge. WASs always talk a big game. Also, he is showing his jealousy. Men that don't care do not get jealous. I've known quite a few guys that cheated on their wives and left them for the OW. Not once did they care when the W started seeing someone. The only ones that cared are the ones that didn't leave for the OW. I don't mean to give you false hope, but his annoyance and anger are actually, in my opinion, very good sings.
Also, he is projecting. His guilt over having an OW makes him lash out at you as if you have an OM because it eases his conscience. And he also keeps bringing up the past to make himself feel better about his choice too. Here is the thing, he knows it is bogus. He knows that even if you were the worst W in the history of marriage, it doesn't give him the right to sleep with other women.
Keep it up! You are turning into a DB ninja!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
