Originally Posted by Ginger1
....he should be begging his way back in. Begging for forgiveness.

Even at that point, you DO NOT let him back. You have your list of NON-NEGOTIABLES....

Do your homework. What are your non-negotiables?

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You need to just become and act the way you want to be without concern for the results it might produce in him.
This is dropping the rope. Letting go of the results. Letting go of the outcome.

This is a defining moment in your life to really dig into your core values, examine your belief system and define how you want to be treated.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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