I'm still GAL, detaching, and 180. W still rarely talks about anything other than the particulars of the divorce filing. Have no expectations. Have very little hope. I'm doing okay though. Child custody and support agreements are all to my liking, so there is that. W is still cold as ice. The moment I think there is a slight thaw, she goes back to being all about the divorce. It seems there is little hope in reconciliation. I'm all about making myself the best me that I can be. Part of me really wants to make her regret her decision by becoming a kick ass dude. Getting back to more of the alpha male that I was before we met. I'm not letting her walk all over me anymore. Part of being able to do that is how cold she is to me--even though she's cordial.

Last edited by harvey; 10/08/18 04:18 PM.